The girls flag football community is mourning the loss of Tim Costello, a highly respected referee whose dedication, fairness, and genuine compassion left a lasting impact on countless athletes, coaches, and fellow officials. News of his passing has prompted an outpouring of tributes from those who had the privilege of sharing the field with him over the years.
Tim Costello was far more than an official. He was known for treating every player with respect, taking the time to ask young athletes how they were doing before games, and ensuring they understood his decisions on the field. His calm demeanor, approachable personality, and commitment to fairness earned him the admiration of players, coaches, and spectators alike.
Those who worked alongside Tim remember him as someone who deeply valued the integrity of the game. He believed officiating was about more than enforcing the rules—it was about creating a positive environment where athletes could compete, learn, and grow. His willingness to explain calls and communicate with players demonstrated the respect he had for everyone involved in the sport.
Throughout multiple seasons and summer league competitions, Tim became a familiar and welcomed presence on the sidelines. His warm smile, encouraging attitude, and professionalism helped make every game a better experience for those on and off the field.
Following the announcement of his passing, heartfelt messages have poured in from members of the girls flag football community, many expressing gratitude for the countless games he officiated and the positive influence he had on young athletes.
One tribute shared:
“It is with a heavy heart that we have learned of the passing of one of the most amazing referees that we have had on the sidelines for girls flag football, Tim Costello. He always asked our girls how they were doing, explained his calls, and cared deeply about the integrity of the games he refereed. Thank you Tim for all the games you have called for us throughout the seasons and summer league. Your smile and kindness will be greatly missed.”
While his passing leaves a tremendous void, Tim Costello’s legacy will continue through the many athletes he encouraged, the coaches he worked alongside, and the lasting example of sportsmanship and integrity he demonstrated throughout his years of service.
At the time of publication, no additional details regarding the cause of Tim Costello’s death have been publicly released. Funeral and memorial service arrangements are expected to be announced by his family at a later date.
Tim Costello will be remembered not only as an outstanding referee but also as a kind-hearted mentor and friend whose dedication to youth sports made a meaningful difference in the lives of so many. His memory will continue to inspire fairness, respect, and compassion both on and off the field.